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This was with an ex BF. We were both 23 at the time. He considered himself hyper sexual but he never made me cum. I would try really hard to gently tell him and offer different ways of doing things so when he was trying to pleasure me it would be more ‘successful’ and he would always act very ‘defeated’ and give up and it would ruin the mood. So I’d stop suggesting ways for it to be more pleasurable for me, but then he would get concerned I wasnt enjoying it. It was a very vicious cycle. Does anyone have any insight? submitted by /u/yourmommakesgoodfood

Originally posted by u/yourmommakesgoodfood on r/AskMen