Basically I had asked this girl about her sexual past early on and she had said that she had two threesomes. At the time I didn’t care much about it because it was very early stages. But as the relationship progressed and like seven months into dating I brought the topic up a couple times and I always got the sense that she was lying. Maybe being a dumbass, but trusting my intuition I went through her phone and from a super quick search found out that she engaged in like 5 threesomes. But where it gets bad is one of them was with a woman who was in an open marriage and then another man who is also in a different open marriage. And she then proceeded to hook up with her husband of the original wife one on one in the following months. Messy. Turns out that she went to lunch with this husband a couple weeks before I found all of this out and I pieced it all together and I asked her to my face is are you still in contact with any of these people and she said no… so it’s like the fact she lied to me about her past, lied to me about being in contact with these people, and feeling the need to hide and go to lunch with this guy. How would you guys handle that? Would you ever put up with a woman like that? submitted by /u/Ok_Dig_8237
Originally posted by u/Ok_Dig_8237 on r/AskMen
