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Genuine question. We often talk about the bare minimum in relationships (respect, loyalty, honesty, communication, emotional support, etc.). Beyond those basics, what do you think a man should reasonably expect from his partner in a healthy long-term relationship? I’m not asking what women owe men. I’m asking what additional qualities, efforts, or contributions make someone a genuinely good partner rather than just meeting the minimum standard. In addition I sometimes see content online from people who identify as feminists that come across as hostile toward men, although I realize social media algorithms often amplify the most controversial content . Do most women think expectations and standards are the same like I want my partner to do say XYZ but I won’t do that for him/her . This should be expectations or delusion rather than standards . I am genuinely confused between the definition of feminism and the way it’s practiced in both real life and on the internet. . I might be wrong , so I just wanted to know what people here think and whether I’m misunderstanding something. 🤔🤔 submitted by /u/Dabi26222

Originally posted by u/Dabi26222 on r/AskMen