I always wanted more curves to be more present during intimacy with my husband. Wider hips to look more womanly, everything is stored on the belly and torso like a toddler (no joke) even though I’m quite lightweight. :/ Last year another woman that I barely met says : “the first time I saw you the other day I was like but you look so young, is that a child?” Or few years back another lady : “ah your this age, but you don’t look womanly” Or a guy: “ so when did you lose your wasp waist exactly?” (I was only 54kg but like I said lean limbs and bloated torso / belly bit like toddlers), I have very good cardio but started lifting weights to stimulate my hormones get more muscle etc. I know I should give zero fucks as no man likes insecurity. I don’t even think the problem is aesthetics but more mindset / hormonal. I see lots of horny girls out there and I want to be able to reciprocate that. submitted by /u/LillWhiteFox
Originally posted by u/LillWhiteFox on r/AskMen