Let’s forget for a second the issue of finding a compatible partner which is a deeper topic to tackle. I have another dilemma here that I want you to give it a little bit of a thought. I read online that women don’t like to be approached irl or online by strangers which I understand, I would also ignore random DMs from women on social media because I think it means nothing (maybe just looks driven). I also read online that women like to be approached by people they know or by people that are interested in them as a person (not as a body) which I also understand and agree with. Then I also read online that women feel disappointed with their “friends” when they approach them, because they feel like they have been fooled the whole time. So my message to women is: pick a struggle. I agree with not wanting cold approaches, but if I got a connection with a woman the only reason I am doing that is that I see her as a potential partner. Also I feel like when you are done with college you basically have fewer opportunities to meet a woman organically, unless you have some hobbies that women are interested in (which is not the case for me and I am not ready to fake my hobbies to meet women). So how on earth are you supposed to meet someone? submitted by /u/Active-Doubt-8797
Originally posted by u/Active-Doubt-8797 on r/AskMen
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