I (28f) met a guy through my cousin last year. We hit it off and became good friends, hanging out both alone and in groups. He was newly single when we met, having recently left a really toxic situation where he was cheated on. He wasn’t looking and I didn’t really see him as anything other than a friend. He recently mentioned that he wants to start dating again, and I realized that I like him as more than a friend. I want to shoot my shot before he gets into something serious, but if hes not interested id like to maintain our friendship. I’m going between being direct, trying to scope out what hes looking for (id only be interested in dating, not sure if hes looking for casual). Do I do it over text so he doesn’t feel pressured? Irl because were adults who should be able to handle this? I have a newfound respect for every man whos ever asked me out 😅 submitted by /u/Then-Independent-788
Originally posted by u/Then-Independent-788 on r/AskMen
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