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I’m curious to know how guys that struggled in their early 20s with women and dating found a way to improve, or if it just got easier as you got older. Or, did it never really get better for you? If it matters any i’m currently 22 and do struggle a bit with dating, not 100% sure why but I am pretty average overall in my opinion. I’m average height at 5’9, and kinda skinny/athletic build. Some of my friends have said i’m good looking, which I personally am not sure if its true based on my lack of dating history. I am a bit shy around people I don’t know IRL, so maybe that plays a bigger part in it that I realize. I do feel like a lot of the time I am rather invisible to women that don’t know me, whereas random women will smile or greet other guys I know while i’m just kinda there. I know they say women rarely if ever approach first, but i’ve firsthand seen it happen to a few guys and it has never happened to me, which makes me believe maybe it’s my looks. submitted by /u/18-m-bi

Originally posted by u/18-m-bi on r/AskMen