I’m (33, M) still really upset and embarrassed about something that happened at a pool party this past weekend. One of my friends (or former friend now) pulled my swim shorts down in front of a group of people as a joke. I was shocked and a group of other gay guys saw the whole thing. I know people joke about stuff like this, but I didn’t find it funny. My body is private to me, especially my penis, and I didn’t choose for anyone to see me like that. Everyone else laughed and moved on, but I’m still stuck replaying how exposed and humiliated I felt. Who does something like that? Am I overreacting for still being upset about this? This is considered assault, right? submitted by /u/Undertherug__
Originally posted by u/Undertherug__ on r/AskMen