I’m 21(F) and first started having sex with this guy 21(M) in October, but we’ve been consistently seeing each other since February. Back in March/April, I asked him what he was looking for, and he told me he wasn’t looking for a relationship and didn’t want one. Fair enough—I was okay keeping things casual. But over the last few months, things have become much more intimate than what I would consider a typical friends-with-benefits situation… • Including me in family plans • Introducing me to extended family members • Becoming more emotionally open and vulnerable • Seeing each other 3–4 times a week • Sleepovers almost every night • Talking about family, kids, goals, and life decisions • Discussing how our friends and families know about “us” • Taking me on dates, buying me gifts, and saying he “takes care” of me • Conversations like, “I’m not seeing other people and you’re not seeing other people,” and “You have nothing to worry about—I’m not leaving you.” Like what point does “casual” stop being casual??? submitted by /u/MajesticYogurt4459
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