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I’ve been looking back on my relationship and I realized I may have just been a like “nice guy” instead of a good guy and like thats lwk ew. I really didn’t think I was, and I was being genuine but I spiralled in the relationship and a lot of my insecurities became me. I feel like I lost myself but maybe these insecure and paranoia version of me is me, and thats bad, very bad. And i feel like this is a recent development bc I’ve always been helpful for the sake of doing good but recently I feel a bit off and that showed heavily in my relationship- idk I’m scared I was just this “nice guy” and that’s lwk pathetic and like also just manipulative and I want to know how to fix that because that’s lwk disgusting of me and I KNOW I’m capable of better submitted by /u/65DaleRamirez65

Originally posted by u/65DaleRamirez65 on r/AskMen