I don’t know what to say but here we go I got with my now ex at the first time in my life I’d truly experience freedom in what I could wear (finally had the money to experiment) and I realised recently that I have no idea what type of clothes i genuinely like. I realised I wore reds and warm tones when me and him were together but after talking to my friends we have all agreed that before him i wouldnt touch warm tones because they wash me out. I guess Whay im tryinf to say is how do I know what type of things i actually like wearing and how to stop subconsciously going to buy the type of things he would like me in? I lost myself so deeply for the last 3 months of thar relationship and in the 3 since I haven’t been able to find myself still. Im sorry this is so rambley I just really need advice submitted by /u/California_Rain_
Originally posted by u/California_Rain_ on r/AskGirls