Hi all! For context, I’m a 21YO M and my significant other is a 21YO F. We have been together for nearly 2.5 years. Ever since I got into a relationship, I stopped going out fully and became more of a homebody chilling at the house, getting geeked, gaming, etc. I usually only go out now when my GF really really asks for me to come along. My GF on the other hand goes out usually twice a week during the school year which I have no issue with since I know her friends very well and I am usually the one picking her up from the bar/club every single time. In fact, I often urge her to go out and have fun with her friends. Never once have I had an issue/dispute about her going out. However, now she’s currently studying abroad for a school program in Europe and I’ve become a lot more iffy/uncomfortable about her going out. I personally think it’s due to me not knowing any of her friends in the group she goes out with, her getting super drunk without me there to pick her up in a foreign country, her friends often being a little bit irresponsible with their drinking and ditching the group to go home with guys they meet at the bar, and obviously the distance. I understand she’s abroad and obviously girls wan have their fun but it just feels very off putting now I definitely say I trust her and she hasn’t ever really done anything to break my trust. She’s an amazing girlfriend and I truly feel like I trust her deep down but for some reason I’ve just been kinda unfomrtable recently about it and wanted to reach out to you guys for some advice. Should I bring up this discomfort or is it just me being insecure? Thank you guys! submitted by /u/SureLeather8975
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