Hey guys, my gf told me she cheated on me multiple times with the fiancé of her best friend. This was months ago, and it only came to light when the friend found out. I kind of always had a small fear of it, but i trusted her. Gf tried to play it off as her “being in a really bad headspace” and how she has always had a “need to feel wanted” and all this other bullshit. She also told me she was going to keep it a secret until we were old. Who says that to someone they love? Anyways, im just really confused and spiraling. I’m 25, she was my first girlfriend, we spent literally every day together (lived at her parents place together). I don’t feel anything for her anymore but I don’t know how to cut her out of my life. I keep feeling like I have to avoid hurting her, avoid making her cry. I don’t really have a lot of men in my life I can turn to for advice or guidance, and idk, im just worried i’ll end up staying with her when I don’t want to. And I hate that im going to lose our mutual friends. She’s told our friends that she cheated, and they seem supportive of her/understanding. I have my own friends to turn to but I just gotta figure this out on my own somehow. submitted by /u/Arockthatalsorolls
Originally posted by u/Arockthatalsorolls on r/AskMen
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