I have a resting death glare/I’m sizing you up for a fight face. And I have veiny kinda built arms and I basically look unapproachable. How do I date women or appear more “safe?” I feel like I gotta give a girl a list of all these disclaimers and say I’m actually a nice and caring guy and please don’t judge me on my looks. I can’t for the life of me “fake it” and fake smile - I can’t only do that genuinely (which apparently I have a nice smile according to women who’ve seen me laugh and have genuine fun). Help? How do I human? 😂 Edit: Only times women feel “safe” with me and like actually approach me is when I wear dumb shirts like a kpop demon hunter shirt, my twilight Team Edward shirts, tacky/dad shirts, etc. Like they find the contradiction funny and cute. They also feel safe when I talk because I have a stereotypical “gay voice” (people have actually told me this more than once). Like for you boomers out there apparently my voice sounds like Flapjack from the Marvelous Misadventures of Flapjack. submitted by /u/iRobert123
Originally posted by u/iRobert123 on r/AskMen