I’m 31M, married to my wife for 12 years, no kids. Our relationship is pretty solid overall and I’m grateful for it. We have sex at least once a week. I know that’s pretty average, but I’d like it more often. When we do have sex it’s really great and enjoyable for both of us. Definitely not boring. Even when we’re not being intimate we touch each other a lot. At least I do. My main issue is initiation. I almost always start things and I’ve asked her plenty of times to initiate more. Wake me up if I’m sleeping, I’m down 😂. It hasn’t happened yet though. It makes me feel like I’m the only one pursuing, which is annoying even though she clearly enjoys it when it happens.Any advice for getting the lower drive partner to initiate more without it feeling like pressure? Or am I being just greedy and just accept the 2 and 3 times a week or less. submitted by /u/Helpful_Apartment_50
Originally posted by u/Helpful_Apartment_50 on r/AskMen
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