For context, I’m 32 and been getting back to the gym after falling off the wagon a bit. There’s a guy there who also goes there about the same time as me and also is typically on his own. We started just talking about the usual stuff and after a few weeks he was like, “We should hang out sometime!” I agreed and we’ve gone out and hit the town once or twice. He’s going through a divorce and doesn’t know many people around here, so i think he likes just having a buddy, and i like making friends. I DO NOT want to come on to him or try and start anything physical, so please no suggestions centered around that, thanks. Do I just shoot him a text and say “Hey, man! I dont wanna make things weird, but I wanted to let you know Im gay. I dont want you to feel like I have any ulterior motives for hanging with you though. I genuinely just like hanging out with you” Something to that effect? What should I add or take away? EDIT: Thanks to all who responded! I wasnt expecting so much of a response. I feel like the overwhelming majority have advised to just not worry about it and if it comes up naturally, then ill mention it. Thanks again, guys! submitted by /u/ScooDoo4
Originally posted by u/ScooDoo4 on r/AskMen
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