Or more so what are the wrong ways to approach a guy? I’m 21F and I am very much fat which is why I would say that guys don’t come up to me to the point I might as well approach them. I never had an IRL boyfriend only online relationships which kinda tanks my ego that I can find guys who like me online but never in person. I wonder if it’s my looks? I think I have an average face but my weight could be the main problem. I’m in a new state and I’m going to a dance club this week and I bought myself a cute outfit to wear that I feel good in and I really would like to meet people but also talk to guys. I don’t mind getting rejected but at this point I’m just desperate for some friends How would you like to get approached by a random girl? Update: I am 290 lb , I am going to the gym and trying to lose weight but if I drop dead Tomorrow I don’t want to regret not living my life, also yes I want a boyfriend but if I can also make fried s with guys as well I’m perfectly fine with that. Just to clarify submitted by /u/oliva69
Originally posted by u/oliva69 on r/AskMen
