I’ve been talking to a girl for a while and things are going well. I’ve always been someone who takes things pretty slowly, but my friends think I move too slow and should be making more moves. For example, I’ve held hands with her before, but something like putting my arm around her during a movie or cuddling feels like a much bigger step to me than it seems to be for other people. My questions are: Is it better to miss a moment because you’re not ready, or push yourself to do something you’re uncomfortable with? Where do you draw the line between respecting your own pace and letting fear or nerves make decisions for you? How can you tell if you’re genuinely not ready for something or if you’re just nervous about making the move? At what point does taking things slow become being too hesitant? I’d love to hear other people’s experiences and opinion. submitted by /u/Due_Action_7982
Originally posted by u/Due_Action_7982 on r/AskMen
You must log in or # to comment.