I am 28, recently engaged after 4 years of being with my fiancé. Me and my fiancé used to live together in my country. After a 3 year wait I got my status in the US. It was easier for me to move here alone, my fiancee gave up everything so that I could do it, she would follow along. I love my fiancé. She is the love of my life. Not exaggerating, I really feel that. I have been here in the US alone for a year. No friends. I am building my business and I do Lyft part time to pay bills. In January I gave a ride to a couple (well, at least I thought they were a couple). They asked me a bunch of questions, we talked and by the end of the ride, the girl asked me for my number in case I wanted 2 friends in the city. That night I told my fiancee I had met this couple. She texted me. We started talking. Nothing flirty, just informal, friendly talk. We shared documentaries we like, my business, tips about the city, things about our life and I confided about my relationship. How we both are doing long distance, how I love my fiancee and intend to have a family with her (my driving force). I never gave signs that I wanted anything else than friendship with her. NEVER. We talked sometimes over the phone, as friends. So I thought. Our conversation fizzled out. I did not reply to her text and did not look to maintain the friendship. It had been 3 months since last talked. She found my TikTok account. She saw my fiancee wrote comments on my videos. She approached her and said I was talking with her. The way she put it was that I was trying to be with her. She sent screenshots of our calls, text messages, etc… Mind you, no text message that she sent was flirty, or sensual. Just a track record that we spoke. My fiancee says she feels humiliated. She says I only talked to her so much because I like her and want to be with her. In all honesty, I just found a friend to confide. This is was the biggest mistake I’ve ever made in my life. My fiancé is ready to end things, says she does not want to marry me anymore and that she does not want to have kids with me anymore. Called me a bunch of insults. I am really distraught, as that was never my intention. Ever since I have come to this country my only driving force is having a family with her. That is what motivates me to succeed. What should I do? I do not want to lose my fiancé. She says she lost her will to fight for a relationship with me. submitted by /u/DoesItGoDownIntheDM
Originally posted by u/DoesItGoDownIntheDM on r/AskMen
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