Hi Men I wanted to ask a question. How to motivate my boyfriend ? For starters he’s 31M. I believe he had a rough start in life like we all & I am very empathetic to that, we aren’t all given the same chances. However we’ve been dating for 6-8 months, I work full time, got the car, job and studying for school & taking the load of the financial burden. He tells me to be patient with him that time will come and we will be " up". I got him an interview for a job & hope that that goes through. Am I enabling him ? What can I do to encourage him to just be more ambitious ? I think he feel stuck you know , no real education background , food experience . What would you want in a situation like this ? submitted by /u/Decent-Constant2795
Originally posted by u/Decent-Constant2795 on r/AskMen