Had a conversation today about this involving lap dances at a strip club. I said yes because the intent is sexual and desiring; you talk dirty, give compliments, possibly touch, etc. My friend said it isn’t cheating because its just window-shopping. I asked the classic “roles reversed” follow-up and they said that it wouldn’t be cool if their gf did it because its different. They said men can do it because they’ve been doing it and is socially fine. We went on to talk about more situations like this (using nsfw chatbots, chatting with camgirls/camguys, masturbating to the same person repeatedly), to which my answer was always the same - intent is what matters. What is considered cheating for you? submitted by /u/Polaroid_Dreams
Originally posted by u/Polaroid_Dreams on r/AskMen
