‘Flaw’ isn’t the right way to put it - but no partner is perfect. I feel like when you find ‘the one’ it’s that there is so much good and right to them, that you can overlook the little things. For example, my (30F) partner (35M) is amazing. He’s my best friend. We’re compatible in lifestyles, goals. We want to live in the same place, have family near each other, have similar hobbies. He’s hilarious, loving, caring, handsome, and loyal. The one thing that we don’t have - is a crazy romantic spark. We have sex regularly and it’s good. But I don’t feel wooed. I secretly would love a partner who’s slightly more dominant both in the bedroom and outside, someone who talks more regularly about what my body does to him, buys me flowers, romantic gestures, etc. I find him incredibly handsome and we love eachother, but the sexual and overtly-romantic chemistry isn’t there the way it has been with other partners. BUT, I far prefer the deep love, respect and friendship we have, than a relationship based on passion/romance. Another example: my brother’s wife - he loves her deeply, but he’s told me in private the one thing he looks past - she’s not beautiful. my best friends in laws are awful. Everything about her partner is perfect, and his in-laws are the flaw she puts up with. Another example: a partner who finishes too quickly. Another (smaller): a partner who can’t stop picking their nose. Etc, etc. Tl;dr: What’s your partners one thing? submitted by /u/AccordingOccasion711
Originally posted by u/AccordingOccasion711 on r/AskMen