We’ve all hung out as a group for about two years now, me, my best friend, and his girlfriend. Lately she’s started texting me first about random stuff. Memes, asking how my day went, venting about work stress, the kind of texts that feel more like how a partner checks in than how a friend’s girlfriend usually talks to you. I’ve never replied with anything that could be misread. I keep it short, normal, friendly, nothing more. But the frequency keeps increasing and I’ve started noticing she barely texts him first anymore, at least based on what he’s mentioned in passing without realising what he was actually telling me. I haven’t said anything to him because I genuinely don’t know what I’d even be reporting. Nothing has been said that crosses a line. It’s just a feeling that’s been sitting wrong in my chest for weeks now and I don’t know if I’m overthinking a non issue or sitting on something I should actually bring up. Anyone been in the middle of something like this before. What did you actually do? submitted by /u/Upbeat_Quit7362
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