Original Reddit post

A lot of dating subs says that men never give a chance to the shy/not conventionally attractive women, yet I did. I’ve tried to date 5 of them, but despite any efforts, nothing came out of it. What I noticed tho, is that: they never use dating apps, never show themselves on social media(usually using a fake name and pic) and the only place you can met them are either in college or work, no other places. They always give mixed signals(somewhat showing interest IRL, especially if you have something in common, but never online. They will never dm you first or ask any questions about you). For example, the girl I met in college always met me during the smoke break, hang out, but online - crickets. Can’t go out, can’t met in any place than in college. Have you had any more luck than me with dating them or they’re that reclusive everywhere? submitted by /u/mollekylen

Originally posted by u/mollekylen on r/AskMen