For context, my mother is an older baby boomer woman who English is not her first language, so maybe the advice came off as sounding off, but I think I understand what she meant (sort of). My mother has dated several men in the past 20+ years or so since my dad died back then, so she has a lot of experience with dating in America (I was born and raised here in the US). Anyway, she said that “women don’t like it when you make yourself too available”. You think this is true ? Or no ? What does that mean to you exactly ? Was she saying that you shouldn’t text or call her all time because it makes you look too clingy ? Or maybe you should make your life more “busy” to create this appearance that you are an important man with important things going on and you’re not making your life revolve around the girl ? What did she mean exactly ? And do you think it is good or bad advice ? submitted by /u/GladiusAcutus
Originally posted by u/GladiusAcutus on r/AskMen