Curious to hear personal stories from men who used to be very emotional, intense, attached, or all-in on one person, but later became much more confident, detached, social, and comfortable with attention. Some people call it “playboy confidence,” but I don’t mean being toxic or manipulative. I mean becoming more relaxed, playful, self-respecting, and no longer dependent on one person’s approval. For those who changed a lot over time: What shifted in your mindset? What habits changed you? Did fitness, social life, career, therapy, discipline, or quitting porn play a role? Did you become more confident naturally, or did you intentionally rebuild yourself? Looking back, what was the biggest turning point? Just interested in real stories from men who went from overly attached or rejected to genuinely confident and self-controlled. submitted by /u/HeavyEbb5690
Originally posted by u/HeavyEbb5690 on r/AskMen
