The Male Loneliness epidemic is a multifaceted issue that has been difficult to break down and correct. I could probably discuss several social shifts and technology factors but for now I wanted to ask about one of the common rebukes to the issue: “It’s self inflicted” This response mostly posits that men are at fault because we are “emotionally stunted” and don’t make deep and meaningful emotional connections with other men due to patriarchal beliefs that men should be stoic, or that it is “unmanly” to express ourselves. While there is some truth to that in regard to those specific individuals who fall into the manosphere feedback loop, my anecdotal experience suggests this isn’t the case. I have never had another man react negatively to or otherwise dismiss my emotional displays or discussions regarding my feelings or general emotional state IRL. On the contrary, the only time I’ve ever been told to “man up” or experienced a negative reaction has been by women who seem to still hold on to those aforementioned patriarchal beliefs despite their otherwise more progressive beliefs. It’s made me curious if I’ve just been lucky in my encounters with other guys, or if this is a common experience. What have your experiences been regarding emotional openness with other men IRL? submitted by /u/Klinicalyill
Originally posted by u/Klinicalyill on r/AskMen