My wife and I are both 29. I think my wife is perfect in all aspects except the sex department. We’re opposites when it comes to that. I can have it and want it 24/7 and she can probably go the rest of her life without wanting it. As of late it’s been messing with my head since I don’t feel wanted in that way. She’s great and takes care of me in every other way so it’s like I know she loves and wants me but then I get in my feels after some days or weeks of not having sex. I also feel like I’m over reacting cause we have sex at least once every 3 weeks, 1-2 weeks is usually the average. We have no kids tho so I can’t imagine once we do have kids. The biggest thing for me is that I always have to initiate it. Makes me feel like she doesn’t really want to. I guess I’m looking for advice and people that can relate. I know eventually age will get to me and my sex drive will go down. So the fact that I think she’s great in every other way has kept me positive to stick with it. I also don’t have to stress about questioning her loyalty because of who she is. So all the pros out weigh the cons and yet I still feel how I feel from time to time. Definitely not on purpose. It’s like that’s how I’m wired. I’m hoping there’s many that have gone through what I am going through, stuck it out and can confidently say you’d choose the same partner in another life. submitted by /u/quik8
Originally posted by u/quik8 on r/AskMen