Hi everyone. I’ve been reflecting on the constant expectation to act as an unshakeable pillar, provider, or protector, and how easily that internal burden can go unnoticed by those around you. I’m interested in your individual experiences regarding this dynamic, rather than looking for relationship advice. How does carrying the expectation of being the strong provider or protector affect you personally? What does a “safe space” look like to you? What makes you feel genuinely comfortable dropping your guard without the fear of judgment? What is something you often wish you could hear or experience during high-pressure moments, but rarely say out loud? Thank you for sharing your thoughts. submitted by /u/SophieSalander
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