I (F25) have guy friends whom I’d consider bestfriends, so as with my girl friends. But that’s in my culture, or at least in my circle. I talked with some men in the US and they’d sometimes reveal that they might have friends and people whom they’d hang out with daily, but they wouldn’t consider anyone as bestfriend. There’s this man, he’d sometimes be a bit avoidant to open up about his feelings too, and he’d question why do I get so worried if he’d disappear for days? (He lost his phone after we were in a middle of an discussion) I’d explain that if I suddenly disappeared like that for a long time, my friends would thought that I was kidnapped, of course I’d get worried! And he said that his friends would rarely check up on him. :( And I find that kinda sad. But I wonder if that’s a normal thing between guys? Thank you for your answers. submitted by /u/liakio
Originally posted by u/liakio on r/AskMen