This is intended for men who like (or have experience with) women making the first move. I’m trying to break out of my comfort zone and take initiative by approaching guys I’m attracted to - talking and getting to know them better. So far, I am the one offering ideas to spend one on one time, or just walking and talking together. They say yes when I invite them, and I notice they also go along with other suggestions, it’s nice although I’m also telling them it’s ok if they don’t want to etc. Maybe this is too wordy but I’m interested in men’s perspective. Idk if they see me as attractive or friendly, but they tend to be passive. Not using that as a bad trait, simply I have to contact them and basically take the lead. Even letting one of them know he can sit next to me on our commute. If you were or have been in similar situation - what was the expectation? Hoping she should be the one to ask you out, be more direct? At what point do you signal you’re maybe interested in dating? Is it all in my court? I am confused now heh please help. submitted by /u/uandurcronies
Originally posted by u/uandurcronies on r/AskMen