Today, it was my first date in a year since my 3 year relationship ended, so I’m just getting back there out so norm-wise i’m just as confused as ever haha. I’m 28 and she’s 25, we met on hinge a week ago. At first we were sending multiple long texts back and forth, did a FaceTime to meet first, and at this point we don’t have much text flow and it’s more logistical. She moves, I guess I would say structurally fast but physically and emotionally not as much? She’s also very pretty and successful, and seemed down to go on dates. We went to a coffee shop to meet today and had some good talks (a couple silences but nothing crazy and convo resumed okay, we are both on the introvert side). She also talked in future terms quite a bit, it’s like half joking tone stuff like about me showing her another country, future dates we could go on, stuff like that. She touched my arm a few times to show me things, walked around. She was very cold so I asked if I could put my arm/coat around her and she said yes. She joked that I should tell my mom I met a pretty girl, asked me a lot of personal questions (family/life stuff, what my future looks like), we had good eye contact and she played with her hair a good amount but I really don’t know with that sort of stuff lol. She also offered to drop me off which, as a guy, on a first date was really surprising that she felt like she could trust me like that. I asked if I could give her a kiss at the end when we got to my stop, she looked down a bit a lil nervous and said ‘a hug maybe’ I said a hug is great, we did had a light hug across the console and I went on my way. So yeah also kinda wish I didn’t ask at this point since it was maybe too forward but it is what it is. I sent this text after: It was nice meeting you, I hope you got home safe! I had a good time getting to know you! It would be great to see you again :) Have a good night 🌙 She sent: I’m home! Nice to meet you too and yes it would be nice to see you again 😊 Im not great at reading social cues lmao but I wonder how this comes across to you guys? submitted by /u/throwRA454778
Originally posted by u/throwRA454778 on r/AskMen
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