Hey everyone, I’m reaching out because I’ve honestly hit a breaking point. For as long as I can remember, I’ve always been the nice guy. I try to help everyone out, avoid conflict at all costs, and just keep the peace. But the problem is, it feels like almost everyone in my life just takes benifit of my nice behavior. Whether it’s friends, family, or people at work.they all seem to realize I won’t say no, so they just walk all over me or take my kindness for granted. I’m just so exhausted and honestly feeling pretty resentful at this point. I don’t want to become a mean or cruel person, but I desperately need to learn how to stop being such a pushover. For anyone who used to be a chronic people pleaser and successfully broke out of it: How did you start setting boundaries without feeling super guilty about it? How do you say no firmly without being rude? What mindset shift helped you realize that your own needs matter too? I would really appreciate any books, actionable advices, or personal stories you guys can share. Thanks in advance. submitted by /u/Royal_Intention_8607
Originally posted by u/Royal_Intention_8607 on r/AskMen