Hey everyone I need your help to get my life on track as I’m struggling with this. I’ve been going through all of this alone for such a long time. Well, I’ve been living my life on pause mode/standby mode as I’ve had to be there for my family. Instead of going to university/college, I stayed as they needed me. Half of my family stuck in another country because of Covid and other issues, guiding my siblings through high school, supporting my Dad, then there were illnesses and many more things. I stayed and lived my life for them, but I know I have to change things now. Although we haven’t found a solution for every problem, it’s getting better. And I just know I have to start thinking about myself. I’m getting older and older. I’ve been living like a robot just for my family and I love kinda lost myself along the way. I have no idea what to do with my life and how to get there. I’m afraid no one will want me. In the workspace in future or in dating etc. I’m really struggling with self confidence sometimes. When I graduated from high school, I didn’t imagine my life would be like that. I wanna change. I wanna achieve something. I wanna live a life with meaning. I wanna open up a new chapter. I wanna become the man I’ve been called to be. The thing is: what should I do? How do I achieve that? How do I choose the right career? How do I get my life in order in a time and in a world that can be scary sometimes? Something that I struggle a lot with when thinking about all of this: I’m not 18 anymore. I’m in my late 20s now and the scary number is getting closer and closer. And I haven’t figured out ANYTHING. I can’t offer ANYTHING. And I don’t talk about all of this with anyone. Maybe I tell them parts of it, but no one gets to hear how I really feel. Do you have some advices and recommendations? I just don’t know what to do and how to do it etc submitted by /u/winchesterman552
Originally posted by u/winchesterman552 on r/AskMen
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