So I had a conversation with my girlfriend about implants 2yrs ago, she wanted them because of jealousy issues and said I don’t give hers much attention. To me it sounded like a serious body issue and even though I was against it out of principal, I reluctantly gave a maybe, but I made a real effort to show her love. It paid off and fast forward to now, although she says she wants them, its not because of insecurity, but she juts wants them, no other reason given… Now this is much harder for me to accept, I have my reasons: Social and family circumstances/alienation Sexual exclusivity, “enhancing” them gives me a weird feeling because I love what she has It effect my attraction to her and even respect, I feel like the decision is impulsive and its totally not like her. surgical complications, long-term maintenance, dissatisfaction, and the possibility that she might regret it, because she has a history of wanting things strongly at the moment and then just regretting them A worry that it reflects impulsiveness, preference for cosmetic solutions, unstable self-image, and that tendency to pursue personal desires over rational choices. The who is she doing it for question, and men are going to look, and it gonna put us in uncomfortable situations where it could get physical between me and some assholes…etc just jealousy and worries I do have some middle ground, like if it was more socially acceptable and not considered trashy like where I live in, if it was cheap, safe and non invasive…etc but the post is long enough. Please no judgement, I just want to hear from experience just to gather different perspectives. submitted by /u/OvOProxo
Originally posted by u/OvOProxo on r/AskMen
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