I was working for the federal government for almost two years and was very close to passing my probationary period. I was about to be put on a PIP for some performance issues but I addressed those issues prior to the PIP so I am not sure why my management was still heading that way. I got a state government job so I ended up voluntarily resigning instead. I have no gaps in employment and technically I am eligible for rehire at the federal government position. The thing is- I am still so upset and anxious about the federal job not working out. I know realistically it was the best decision to voluntarily resign since it gives me a better option to go back into the federal government in the future. But this is literally ruining my life. I can’t seem to move on from this career setback. Yes I got a state government job but the pay is so low I am so financially stressed right now. I feel like I am grieving the death of someone. I go through the stages of grief on a daily basis. It’s not getting better and I cannot see past this. The federal government job was a dream job and I feel like it was ripped from me. Any and all advice is appreciated. I just want to feel better and not have the pit in my stomach. I feel like my heart has been ripped out of my body. Any career advice from people who have been through something similar would be welcomed. submitted by /u/Prudent_Leave4693
Originally posted by u/Prudent_Leave4693 on r/AskMen