Context: my whole childhood throughout high school I was very overweight and always saw myself as someone who draws no romantic interest. After high school and in college now I’ve toned up lost around 50 pounds and go the the gym 6x a week and i feel like I’m behind for everyone my age. I wouldn’t necessarily say I’m scared of asking someone out as I am not socially awkward but I guess I’m scared of the aftermath of rejection? I guess the thing I’m most worried about is bothering them. Like I said I never really had a romantic relationship because of my physique so i obviously have no confidence. I also just transferred to a new university so I don’t know the most people here but I heard women don’t like cold approaches? Any help! submitted by /u/cayleb2K20
Originally posted by u/cayleb2K20 on r/AskMen
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