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I’ve had a couple partners now, and I’ve recently started dating a new guy. It’s been 3 months. We met on tinder, and he used to text me very well! Especially considering that’s how we met. However now he only texts me for an ETA and he will call after work some days a week. We see each other probably 3x a week. But I’m starting to get a bit sad from the way he messages. Yes I’ve brought it up. I messaged him the other night thanking him for letting me stay when I felt down, and he replied with a brain rot saying, completing invalidating the message. He never used to be like that, I used to receive good morning/night messages etc. We are also grown adults, so I find it a bit stupid. If we don’t see each other some days he won’t text at all, which makes me feel he doesn’t like me, but when he sees me he’s all over me/very talkative. I usually message first, I also message things like: “Have a good day at work” Which he’ll just like it, and not say anything else for the day, which makes me feel kinda down. If it’s a week where I’m just seeing him once. When I call he always seems to be busy, but he calls me if I’m going out and stuff etc. He works a cooperate job, and boasts about how he can just watch TikTok at work. He also is on his phone often when I’m with him. What do I do? submitted by /u/Particular_Earth_117

Originally posted by u/Particular_Earth_117 on r/AskMen