I’ve been married for 15 years, I’ve been fat all my life from teen to adult, the past two years I’ve worked my ass off and lost 120lb. My partner and I had a dead bedroom for about a year - a year or so ago, health issues and stress being the cause on both sides. This year it’s been great, I’ve always been fairly submissive, I’ll do what they want, and not really take charge but since my weight loss I’ve been going on top for the first time, I suck at it! Unless his pounding me too then it kinda falls flat, any tips from a guys perspective? Maybe ones who have been with bigger women or, in a similar situation. I like my new body and I want to utilise it to please my man the best way, I’m just an absolute noob and his communication isn’t the best, I think maybe apprehensive of hurting my feelings but idgaf I just want to please him! submitted by /u/Overall-Hedgehog6938
Originally posted by u/Overall-Hedgehog6938 on r/AskMen
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