Hello 24M, so last year I moved in with my cousins for rent and experienced how life is paying expenses and bills without parental assistance or help from relatives…. Now so far in my months of paying rent, I started noticing that one of my cousins friend started coming to the house more frequently and been staying at our place back to back, it’s been going on since November and honestly this guy became a freeloader at this point because he isn’t serious at all in life and just got fired from work because he calls off and doesn’t have the seriousness to get another job. It’s been really frustrating at this point because it’s been three straight weeks that he been staying at the house and atp doesn’t have a purpose in life, what really concerns me is that he is 26 acting like this!!! My cousins notice how I don’t like how he been at the house and says we can “only give advice and can’t save him, that only he can save himself “ I don’t have ownership under the rental property cuz my eldest cousin handles everything and I’m amazed how everyone else doesn’t seem to mind him staying over for so long. If it continues for a month I might lose my mind!!! I just don’t understand how men like this exist it’s crazy, I could see him staying like this at 30 and still not changing his behaviour because everyone else in the house has big dreams and purposes while he is allowed to freeload submitted by /u/QuitAffectionate9763
Originally posted by u/QuitAffectionate9763 on r/AskMen
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