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i married as a virgin in my early 20s and I would be lying if I said I didnt wish I had dated and lived life a bit in my twenties as one would expect. As I was a virgin, the main thing I had on my mind when finding a potential spouse was, sex obviously. Dating is not encouraged in my culture, you find a woman and you marry her, thats it. Things are changing now a bit but still that is how it goes down typically. I feel like I was not even mature or knew who I was at that age still. this may sound corny but who actually has there sh*t together in the early 20s lol is the bachelor lifestyle overrated or is it something you are glad you experienced or for those who didnt experience that, wish you had? submitted by /u/cant_sit_still02

Originally posted by u/cant_sit_still02 on r/AskMen