Really struggling to get my partner to understand my boundaries. It is mainly when it comes down to intimacy. We can go all evening together and he doesnt touch me once, he might put an arm around me watching TV. We’ll get into bed, he is a night owl and can’t sleep until 3am whereas I have an 11pm bedtime to be up at 6 for work. As soon as we get into bed hes all over me like a rash and it irritates the hell out me. His “love” is very conditional as in, he will spoon me in bed when he’s horny and start kissing my neck. Last night his hands were wondering into my underwear I was tired and said no. Immediately he rolls over onto the other side and goes in a mood. It can never just be anything innocent with him. He even said “what’s the point in you coming if we don’t have sex” this is after being together for two years. I explained how this makes me sound and feel like other than sex there is nothing else to the relationship in his eyes. He says I neglect him and purposely withold sex to torture him and he will go in foul foul moods, keeping me up all night if he has to. I’m just fed up, he literally lacks so much emotion and says hell give me the emotion I need when I’m physical with him. What can I do? Am I being unreasonable here? submitted by /u/ThrowRA_Cutepanda
Originally posted by u/ThrowRA_Cutepanda on r/AskMen
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