As a man, I feel I should enjoy it and chase it… and I’m a decent looking bloke etc. so I have had a good few hook ups but they always leave me feeling anxious, guilty and dirty…I wasn’t raised religiously or anything like that, my parents are pretty open and have told me about their sexual history and they’ve never felt this way about it (so its not really how I’m raised)…but I tend to get really anxious about catching STI’s and even if I’ve worn a condom…I just find it hard to enjoy the casual sex…like I wish I did enjoy it because I wanna feel like a player lol…but I don’t think I’m cut out for it… I think I’m a relationship only sort of guy or something… Are there any other dudes like this? Surely I can’t be the only guy? So many other dudes seem really comfortable about casual sex and even some chicks I’ve spoken to and I sort of feel like a bit of a weirdo or losery for not being real into it…I feel like I should be…but I’d much rather have close intimate sex with a partner, I find it a lot more exciting and I’m a lot more comfortable with it… I was single recently and it even got to the point I thought I’d get my testosterone or something checked because I just wasn’t interested in sex with random women…but found myself in a relationship again and now I’m wanting sex 3 times a day, pretty much all day and I’m real enthusiastic about it…but with a stranger…i feel way less enthusiastic lol…i mean obviously I still enjoy it to a degree but idk… What are your thoughts? Anyone else like me? submitted by /u/TheWoIfMeister
Originally posted by u/TheWoIfMeister on r/AskMen
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