I’m currently in my first relationship ever. It started pretty well, and 2 months after we started talking we made it official. Not long after that, I started noticing some worrying behaviour from her. She’d frequently get mad at mundane stuff and that would put her in a state of mind where everything I can say or do will be a reason to get angry. Arguments started being way too frequent (2-3 per week) and she’d actively do stuff to prevent them from ending. Shortly after an argument was finished, she’d go back to “I love you so much” “I wanna spend the rest of our lives together”. Sometimes it feels downright bizarre. What makes it so hard for me to leave is that she’s not doing it maliciously. She has some issues which we’ve talked about but refuses to admit she needs help. We love each other a lot, and when she’s in a good mood she’s the most loving, affectionate girl you can get and we are so good together. But it’s not worth it anymore. However, I can’t avoid the infamous “I can fix her” from popping up in my head. Knowing how much she loves me and that she needs help makes it so hard for me to take that step. Thinking about her becoming a stranger and not knowing about each other ever again makes my heart drop. How did you guys gain the courage? submitted by /u/ElAutistaDeHamelin
Originally posted by u/ElAutistaDeHamelin on r/AskMen
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