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Do you step in and try to de-escalate the situation before it reaches that point, or do you let her handle it on her own unless she asks for help? I’m curious how other men approach this and what factors influence your decision. The one time it happened to me, I wasn’t there when it started. But as soon as I saw what was happening and realized it was about to turn into a fistfight, I immediately moved to stop her. Unfortunately, the fight had already started by then, and security stepped in and broke it up. submitted by /u/FFSoldier57

Originally posted by u/FFSoldier57 on r/AskMen