My boyfriend’s girl best friend and her brother made comments both insinuating a past intimate history between her and my boyfriend and dismissing our relationship. This happened a few months ago (we’re in ldr and I was in their city) but they’ve recently spent more 1-1 time together. I don’t think anything happened between them, though I’m not 10000% sure . I didn’t bring by it up initially because (1)I felt the comments were made to just get in my head and didn’t want to give them the satisfaction and (2) I know I am carrying prejudices about close coed friendships based on my own experiences. Just need advice on how to bring it up. I’ve pondered a lot on what I would want from this conversation, and I mostly I want to know that there are clear boundaries and that our relationship is respected . I don’t feel threatened by this person and I feel very secure in my connection with my boyfriend ., I just think he should have this information and if I’m honest I don’t like the idea of him spending solo time with someone whoacts this way. submitted by /u/flamboyantfishy
Originally posted by u/flamboyantfishy on r/AskMen
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