Original Reddit post

In movies and from Instagram dating gurus and stuff I see this idea portrayed that it’s mainly the overall skill/competitive success that draws women/girls, but then when I hear women/girls talking about what attracts them to their partner, I also hear a lot about their dedication, their passion for their pursuits, things like that. As in most things, I figured the truth is probably somewhere between the two extremes, so I was curious to find out where most women/girls lie. I recognize that this can be hard to quantify on a sliding scale but any effort to do so and enlighten my caveman self is sincerely appreciated. submitted by /u/Background_Type8450

Originally posted by u/Background_Type8450 on r/AskGirls