Original Reddit post

I’m not sure what to do. I’m currently 22 about to turn 23 in October and things have always been a bit stale. I have friends and family who are in relationships or boast about their sexual exploits while I’m left slightly dazed as I simply can’t relate to them. I have never had a girlfriend but have had “situationships” which were only in high school. I try to cope by working on my passions and the gym but I’m still left with the feeling of loneliness. Sometimes, I feel like it is a weakness/ distraction and other times I just wish to be desired/wanted. I try to talk to women but from what I can understand they’re not necessarily interested in me. I’ve recently started crushing on this girl I’ve known for years but part of me knows what’s gonna happen when I ask her out. I don’t wanna to be a late-bloomer where all of sudden everyone wants me because at that point is it really genuine? I don’t know what else to say honestly, I just feel lost. submitted by /u/Prudent-Inevitable15

Originally posted by u/Prudent-Inevitable15 on r/AskMen