Original Reddit post

I’m starting to notice a pattern in my relationships that I need to take responsibility for. My mom, my ex, and my girlfriends have all expected me to provide financially in different ways. I often paid for things, covered expenses, gave more financially than the other person. How did you break the habit of being the ATM in your relationships without becoming resentful, selfish, or overly guarded? submitted by /u/Fantastic-Read-7643

Originally posted by u/Fantastic-Read-7643 on r/AskMen