So I feel like I am pussy plain and simple, And frustrates me because I shouldn’t be as 21 yr old grown man. There been couple instances where I would shake and feel like a complete pussy. The significant one are 1 time in senior year me and a guy into argument and we were in each other faces and I started shaking I was down to fight but I am upset I showed a sign a fear nothing became of it because he didn’t do anything either but it me feel like he won because my body showed fear. 2nd is when a guy at work at my grocery store screamed at the self checkout. I wasn’t Directly involved however my body still reacted it’s it embarrassing to a man yelling at a machine . 3rd is when this crackhead was screaming at my coworker banging on table and making big scene and my body was shaking. And 4th made me write this is when some teenagers probably 16-20 pressed me for checking their ids saying they were fake when they were. My body was shaking and it honestly so pathetic I honestly feel like less of a man,I wanna learn how I can stop shaking and handle my self better in these situation. I don’t have problem with fighting if it comes down to it but I dns myself holding my tongue find hard to stick up for myself as well making body sturdy and confident. Any advice on how to better myself? submitted by /u/Roubrim
Originally posted by u/Roubrim on r/AskMen